Tuesday, July 31, 2012

In memory of Aunt Helen

This morning, I found out that a long time family friend, Helen Peterson, past away. "Aunt" Helen and "Uncle" Deano lived across West Wood Street from the Jacoby family back in 1981. While, the Jacoby family moved a few streets away from West Wood when I was 6 months old, we stayed close to them over the years. They had the best 4th of July parties - parties that will always hold a special place in my childhood memories.

Many years ago, they moved to Stuart, Florida. They loved it there, Dean loves the golf, Helen loved the weather, but most importantly they loved each other. They were able to live independently, while taking care of each other. They were a true representation of what every person wants their marriage to be like. Last year they celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary.

Lucy was born on Dean's 89th birthday, and Penelope's due date was one day before Helen's birthday. We chose to give Penelope the middle name "Helen" after Marcus' paternal grandmother - Helen Rapp, but it also holds a very special place in my heart for my "Aunt" Helen.

Back in 2010, the Jacoby family was able to visit them in Stuart. It was such a special time with them.



Birthday Buddies! Lucy and Uncle Deano on their 9 month and 89 3/4 birthday respectively!



Lucy loved Aunt Helen too!




I know I'll have to dig to find some of the notes/cards Helen wrote to me, but this morning I found the one she wrote me for my wedding. Something I will always cherish.



March 13, 2007

Dear Meghan:

Even though we can't be with you and Marcus on your wedding day, we shall be thinking of you two all day. We would love to see you walking down the aisle looking beautiful in your gown and on your Father's arm. You mother will be savoring every moment through teary eyes. And Erin and Steve will be reliving their own day four years ago.

As long as you and Marcus continue laughing together and living for each other, you will have may years (more than our sixty) of a healthy, happy marriage. We wish you both health, happiness and a good long marriage.

Lots of love -
Uncle Deano and Aunt Helen



Rest in Peace Aunt Helen, you are greatly missed.

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